DON'T YOU JUST HATE THAT EXACT MOMENT YOU REALIZE YOUR COFFEE HIGH JUST WORE OFF? I AM ABOUT TO START SNORING WHILE I'M AWAKE....CRASHHHHHHHHH
Nothing like a good ole pot stirring to get the blogging world all in an uproar huh? Good to see you are all out there reading and being active. Someone has to stir the pot every now and then and this month it is me. Anyway if your sick of hearing about all this scroll on down to check out the new pictures of my son Codi and his penis!
Posted by Shannon Mateo at 12:23 PM
Ha ha. You are afraid to even leave your name. First let me address all of your stuff. You said I publicly called her out. I NEVER MENTIONED HER NAME ONCE IN THAT FIRST BLOG DID I? NO!!! She called herself out by responding the way she did.
You said you want to follow her pregnancy, if you read her blog you would know you can still do that on myspace, I will even give you the URL to go over and read.
Next, you said I was unhappy my pregnancy wasn't going as well as hers. WRONG!!!!! You couldn't be more wrong. What I was bothered by was someone posting every damn post about hoping the baby was okay. I may have went in the hospital, and I may be having problems, but that doesn't in anyway take away from my happiness for my pregnant friends. My other friends who are pregnant all know I am thrilled for them. Frankly I was just sick of reading the same post over and over. You should also know that I didn't even want to write that, but so many of my friends and readers encouraged me to speak out about it because they were getting fed up and about to send her letters, so I chose to post with out mentioning her name.
You said I am worried about getting in her good graces. NOPE! Julia has made it very clear she wants nothing to do with Reno. We have to high of crime, our traffic sucks, we don't have good food and on and on and on. It made me sad to listen to and in fact IF YOU KNEW ME you would know that I had already told my friends I didn't think I would be able to be friends with someone who seemed to hate everything about me and my city and who was generally unhappy about everything. Read the post from SOMEONE WHO KNOWS HER on my blog. You will see that I'm not the only person in her life who feels she was only posting the negative.
And finally, if you wrote and told me that my blog was upsetting you I would not shut down and run away like a coward with my tail between my legs, I would respond and continue posting and hopefully one day you would find something in my posts you liked. I am not that person who just backs down and shuts down. I've been through shit, more shit then probably most of Julia and her friends combined. Because of that, I've learned to be a hard ass and suck it up like a man.
So with that said, if any one out there has a problem with my blog let me know! If I feel it is valid, like when Jen told me I was too sad I will fix it. IF I feel like you are being silly then I will point and laugh at you. Also, notice that I will leave all of your comments up because I'm not afraid to have the good the bad and the ugly on here. Maybe I didn't need to write my post but keep in mind I never used her name. But seriously I don't think she needed to over react near as much as she has!
Posted by Shannon Mateo at 12:04 PM
CODI IS A BOY! LOOK RIGHT THERE IN THE CENTER WHERE IT LOOKS LIKE THERE IS A THREE FINGER HAND NOPE THATS HIS PENIS ALL PROUD LIKE
I JUST GOT BACK FROM THE DOCTORS OFFICE!
GREAT NEWS! CODI IS DOING AMAZING. HE IS ONE POUND 2
OZ WHICH IS RIGHT ON TARGET. WE ARE STILL DUE ON
NOVEMBER 24TH. THE DOCTOR SAID MY BLOOD CLOT IS STILL
THERE HOWEVER IT IS SIGNIFICANTLY SMALLER AND SINCE
CODI'S HEART WAS DOING SO GOOD AND HE WAS GROWING SO
WELL, THEY DON'T SEE ANY REASON TO WORRY ANY MORE. I
CAN RESUME WORKING AND LIGHT ACTIVITY BUT STILL NO
PICKING UP BRANDON. HE WILL SEE ME BACK IN OCTOBER FOR
A GROWTH CHECK. IN THE I'M A BOY RIGHT THERE IN THE
CENTER THAT THING THAT LOOKS LIKE A FINGER ON THE
BOTTOM IS ACTUALLY CODI SHOWING OFF HIS MAN HOOD. HIS
HEART RATE WAS GREAT, HIS STOMACH WAS FULL, HIS BLOOD
WAS MOVING AND HIS UMBILICLE CORD WAS GREAT! IT WAS A
SUPER DOCTORS VISIT. SOOO EVERYONE PLEASE MEET CODI!
Posted by Shannon Mateo at 10:38 AM
Let me first start of saying, that it was never my intentions to come on here and bash Julia or gossip or shit talk. My intentions were to simply voice my thoughts and opinions. I realize...really I do, that woman worry about their pregnancies. However I also realize when every single post you write is based solely around one or two things it starts to get tiresome. I used to really enjoy reading her blogs, and at no point did I want to stop, I guess I was hoping she would have been adult enough to really read what I was saying.
Let me tell you something, a long time ago, I was at a pretty low point, it seemed most of my blogs were really starting to be a little negative and dreary. One day Jen emailed me (I kept the email) and basically said, "hey man whats up your blogs are a little down in the dumps lately!" You know what I did? I stopped and said, wow shes right, and if I want to keep readers maybe I should change the subject some, or lighten the tone. I did not move my blog to Myspace, set it to private and behave like a small child who just got her Barbie taken away.
The other thing you don't know is I sent Julia a very nice e-mail explaining how I really felt and she chose to ignore it. Whatever. Like her friend said, Julia makes up her mind and thats that. Let me also tell you that I had no clue it was her birthday. It was also my cousins birthday and my dads birthday but did I remember NOOOO. Know why? Because I had been up since four and was having a mild carpet cleaning crisis.
Next everyone says Julia is lonely here and needs friends. WELL THEN maybe she shouldn't have alienated us from the start. All she has done is complain about Reno, the traffic, the people, and so on. It really made me sad to hear that us here in Reno, along with our town wasn't good enough for her. Why should I have kept trying when clearly nothing we did here would please her?
I am sorry she took the blog so deep to heart and she had to cry over it. That wasn't my intentions. My intentions were to say hey, maybe you could write about something or anything else just once. Whatever. She has chosen now to shut you all out of her life and move her blog. I'm over it all. I made an effort and sent two apology letters which I DON'T DO. IF she wants to continue being upset thats fine by me.
Posted by Shannon Mateo at 8:15 AM